Traffic Driven Site

Ok so we need more ladies and more traffic. Here are just few ideas:-
i) More member "live" shows like TSM's -with points incentives for members who contribute
ii)Incentives points weighted in favour of the ladies (at least for the moment)-and maybe couples if more couples encourage the ladies.
iii)Prizes for groupings with most points eg Couple with most points/ lady with most points/ fella with most points in any one month etc
iv)Prizes eg vouchers donated by clubs, fetish clothing suppliers etc
Cheers